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  • In mourning for my little warder

    We didn't have Warrl for very long, really. It has been over a year since we brought him home to keep Dad company. Dad didn't really know much at that point, but he kept trying to call cats over to pet them. The cat we had already(Annie, our tabby cat) was super independent and not really into affection. So we asked around looking for a really affectionate cat that was looking for a home and got Warrl. He kept Dad company while he was ill, and then kept us company after Dad died.
    Warrl loved affection, but wasn't a lap cat. He wanted to be next to you, not on you. He would sit on his hind legs with his front paws up and ask for attention by placing his paw on your arm as you sat in a chair(usually the computer chair) and lightly flex his(super sharp) claws. Not breaking the skin, mind you, just flexing them, but really hard to ignore( I think that was the point). He was a very black short hair cat with the softest blackest velvetiest fur I have seen on a short hair cat. His paws and face hair were like thick black plush and he didn't like the sun, so he wasn't faded to brown like many black cats are. His eyes were a wonderful green and they were usually fixed on you, the nearest person with hands to pet him.
    I am having a hard time believing that he isn't going to be around anymore. He won't be playing tag with Annie and running up and down the hallway like a herd of elephants anymore, or winding around my ankles at just the wrong moment to trip me. He won't be finding by his own sixth sense the one person in a roomful of 6 RPG gamers that happens to be allergic to cats and pestering them for affection anymore. He's not around to eat the beef flavored cat food that Annie doesn't like. Or to beg for catnip(he was a catnip addict;it was hillarious to watch him roll in it).

    (If you are squeamish stop here.)


    Last night he went outside for a bit of night air and never made it back in. This morning I found him with his neck broken and partially eaten by a coyote or dog. He was very dead, which doesn't explain why when I called for him, I thought I heard a cat moan, and looked over the little stone wall into the neighbors yard and found him. I can only hope that the broken neck means that he didn't suffer much. He was much more fit than he was when we got him(living with Annie would do that;she loves to play tag and they chased each other around alot), but we always said his Dex/agility was pathetic(on a scale of 1 to 100, it would have been under 30...WITH the racial bonus for being a cat). He was never much of a jumper or climber, though he was strong otherwise. Against a dog or coyote though, jumping would have been his only defense. The only thing that's going to save Annie from getting locked in the house the rest of her natural days is the fact that she is a great jumper, can jump the chainlink fences, and spends most of her outdoors time on the roof.
    I miss you, Warrl.

  • #2
    /mourn
    /comfort

    A dog or cat inevitably breaks your heart, and their loss is worse when sudden . I have had several '4 legged family members' taken from me over the years, though only the last was exclusively MY child. It hurts. There will always be a small hole where each of them was, though most especially Sherry, who was my companion from college through the first year of my marriage 14 years later. It's been over a year now since I lost Sherry, and it DOES get easier, I promise. Most of the time the companionship of my adult cat, or the puppy we adopted last summer, keeps me from even missing her. But even when something makes me remember, and cry, I can smile through the tears as I remember her antics, and I comfort myself by knowing she's playing with the other pets my family has lost over the years, and that one day I'll see her again.

    /hugs
    Serenya Soulhealer
    Guild Leader of The Revellers, Tribunal



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    • #3
      I think Warrl is up there playing with my cats Princess and Starlight, and having a great game of tag-you're-it!

      The first cat we ever lost in my family was Princess. She was a beautilful siameese cat who was not your typical siameese. She loved people and didn't complain. If she didn't like a person, they were someone to stay away from.

      When she passed we knew it was coming. She'd started wasting away after we'd visited Holland for one month and then we took her to the vet to make sure she was ok. She'd gone from 14lbs to 7lbs. The Vet said she had a 50/50 shot of surviving the plane flight if she was in the cabin with us, and luckily she made it through the long flight ok. Then she stopped eating... we fed her tuna chunks and juice since that was all she would eat, but she kept slipping from us over a few months. Then one day she couldn't even get up to relieve herself. My mother stayed with her until 2am hoping she would feel safe and that we were saying that it was "ok" for her to go, but she refused to go when mom was there (Note: we could not take her to the Vet since we were in Holland and everything closes up at 6pm or doesn't open at all on Sundays).

      My mother went to bed around 2am and told me to check on her before I went to bed. At 4am I noticed her twitching, barely. I checked on her and sure enough she had passed. I kept hoping that she'd start breathing and wake up.......

      I can say that I hope no one else has to watch your pet suffer like she did.

      Man.... the thought of seeing that still affects me. Please, if you know it's time... take them to the vet, don't let them suffer just because you want them around a little more.
      Aoladari Raveynfyre - Knightrix of Shadows
      Leiliann Windancer - Perma-lost Rangerette

      Current Bumpersticker - (The more I learn about men, the more I'd rather be diving!)

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      • #4
        /comfort

        I know exactly how you feel. I've lost two 4 legged members of my family in the last two years. The first was my cat Merlin. He was the most wonderful cat I'd ever been owned by, completely black and amazingly affectionate. He even got my husband, who hated cats, to adore him. He was an indoor cat, but loved trying to slip by us and get out any time a door was opened. My husband and I were always both very careful, but one day my father-in-law got distracted with the door open, and out he zipped. We looked and looked for hours and finally found him, but by then it was too late and he'd been hit by a car. I thought my heart would break. Then we lost Lir, my darling dog to a stroke. He actually had two strokes, and had seemed to be recovering fairly well from the first one when he had the second one. After the second one he was obviously in some serious pain, and I was only able to last two hours before I broke down and begged my husband to take him to the vet to be put out of his pain. I still seriously mourn my furry children and still look for them often when I'm walking around the house or yard. There will always be a small hole in my heart at their loss.
        Idara Inari - nosy woodelf druid addicted to tradeskills
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        • #5
          {comforts}

          I've lost some wonderful ones over the years. The first that was totally "mine", I found dead on the side of the road as I was getting on the school bus to head to school. In the decades since then, I can state that it never gets easier to lose a 4-footed member of the family, whether taken suddenly in the night, or watching them waste away to nothing (my most recent loss was a cat that had been one of the few good things to come out of the divorce of my first husband that died of kidney failure, despite some valiant efforts to keep him going).

          While I am VERY glad that my current "girls" are all indoor cats, due to the nesting redtail hawks nearby, as well as a pack of wild dogs in the area, I dread the day when some feline ailment, or old age, strikes one of them.

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          • #6
            /comfort
            /share cry

            It is never easy at all to loose your friend.

            I currently have 4 indoor only cats and 3 indoor dogs.

            Cats:
            Gracy - Tan colored Mine all mine she will rub others but hiss and batt at them if they reach for her. :twisted: She sleeps on me and lays next to me all the time she also sings with me when I am singing to music on the computer.

            Suzy - Affectionatly known as LUMP a large tabby grey and white she loves attention and lays on my pillow or my wife's pillow all night.

            Tigger Lear - Male long hair adopted from sister in law when she lost apartment loveable but sort of antisocial does not like dogs at all.

            Athena - Black roughneck cat girl. Has one white spot on chest. She is the bridge between the dogs and cats as a kitten she walked out to the dogs in the living room and stood there while they challenged her and never flinched. Now they are best buds.

            Dogs:

            Bear - Big fluffy golden retriever loveable and attention hound.

            Maggie - Black Lab has ADD just grab a ball and she is yours for life.

            Survivor - German Short Haired Pointer he is a stray I saved at the same time my wife was going through chemo therapy treatments hence the name. He is a large lump like suzy but loveable and he bounces like a lil dog when he gets excited.

            We love our babies and would not know what to do if we lost any one of them.

            Woodeckt WolfdenGlade Warden of the 65th Circle & 36AA -
            Follower of Karana & Protector of all Living Creatures.Captain Serving Trampers Trade
            The Wolfden Clan




            • #7
              Aoladari -

              I completely get what you are saying about taking them to the vet. I had a poodle that was 12 years old when we finally had to have him put to sleep. He had had a stroke and the vet told us he wouldn't survive much longer. I can still remember clearly being in the vet's office and making the decision to have him put down. My hands were petting him as he died and as painful as it was, I can't even imagine having taken him home only to watch him take longer to die. When they get to the point where they no longer enjoy things they used to, it's time. The only thing keeping me from crying as I type this (barely) is knowing I did what was best for him and this happened probably 14-15 years ago.

              I feel for anyone who has ever been through this. It was the hardest choice I've ever had to make.
              Jmorgaia Tinybubbles
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              • #8
                Aerinha, I am very sorry for your loss. I have lost a few "friends" in my day and it is never something good. Just as with all things, you can only hope they are in a better place now.
                Enfiniti Starr
                Pathfinder of the great Rain God, Karana
                Ayonae Ro

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                • #9
                  I've bonded with several pets over the years, and watched many of them die. But.. I don't think I've ever bonded with a pet as strongly as I have with my current kitty, Cailet.

                  It's going to kill me to lose her. She got me through my divorce, and the years after. She's moved around the country with me. She is irritating and silly and wonderful, all wrapped up in one.

                  I love her dearly, and can only think of the story https://vip.candidnet.com/go/http://...RAINBOW BRIDGERainbow Bridge</a>. It gives me hope that one day I'll be with my four legged friends again.
                  Fielan Aan'Cueran - The Keepers
                  62 Hierophant
                  E'ci

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                  • #10
                    Cailet as in Melanie Rawn's ROA series??? Nice name =)
                    Aoladari Raveynfyre - Knightrix of Shadows
                    Leiliann Windancer - Perma-lost Rangerette

                    Current Bumpersticker - (The more I learn about men, the more I'd rather be diving!)

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by fielan
                      I love her dearly, and can only think of the story https://vip.candidnet.com/go/http://...RAINBOW BRIDGERainbow Bridge</a>. It gives me hope that one day I'll be with my four legged friends again.
                      The link was a bit funny; here's a working version that doesn't require a login.

                      http://www.animalsforawareness.org/fbooktidbits.html#RAINBOW%20BRIDGE
                      Sir KyrosKrane Sylvanblade
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